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Ironically enough, if you could take the best of those women and the best of those men, and place them in a big room where they could sit at a table and ask each other questions in person – you’d probably have 4 or 5 new match-ups by the end of the night. All they have to do is get online every day, sitting on their princess throne and file through the dozens or more profiles of men who have messaged them throughout the day.The problem with online dating is that you can’t see the person’s face when they’re telling you about themselves. I think it’s hard for guys to comprehend the world of online dating from a woman’s perspective. They then flippantly toss out all of those well thought out, carefully crafted messages from most of those poor schmucks, and then they log onto their Facebook accounts to complain to their girlfriends that there are no “good men” left in the world.A man messaged her, telling her how attractive he thought her “Latino tan” was.When she pointed out that she was actually Indian, and naturally brown, he stopped replying immediately.Our friend Dave Chen — who, by the way, filmed the major part of his Stephen Tobolowsky documentary this weekend (and his behind-the-scenes posts on the Kickstart project have been fascinating) — posted this to his Faceboook wall last week, and it’s stuck with me for several days. People still talk over you, still talk down to you, on the off-chance they talk to you at all … It’s an answer on Reddit from a female on “What is life like for an unattractive woman? Wingmen, no matter how talented they may be in any other situation, seem to lose all ability to conduct small talk. I see, here on reddit, everywhere, this idea that all women are “taken care of,” that men buy them drinks, hold doors open for them, help them lift heavy suitcases and boxes, etc. Sometimes people are attracted to you, and when you are not attracted to them … Because there’s the idea, the implication, that you aren’t going to do any better.
One of the most telling incidents occured more than a year ago when a friend was using online dating site OKCupid.
It might have been down to a variety of reasons, but experience told her that it’s because he didn’t want to date an Indian girl - or, indeed, any girl who was radically different from himself. A new study by OKCupid suggests that such behaviour is more prevelant than ever.
The website looked at research from five years ago - which showed most people prefer to date within their own race - and compared it to current data. According to OKCupid, Asian and black men receive fewer messages than white men, while black women receive the fewest messages of all users.
It really is true that normal, every day and even what some call “ugly” guys can make women feel attracted to them as they talk and interact.
If a man is able to make a woman feel attracted to him in other ways (e.g.